Random catch up,adulting,romance,self love..

First, thanks for being here,for my loyal readers I left you at Naivaisha,”Why are you not going to “vashaa” WRC?“,so did you go or you caught up everything on social media ? Well, I plan to go next time strictly business because,i heard some of you made even millions and great connections not just casual sex and booze. Not judging either if that was your jam ,I’m here to remind you that sherehe for December you will see it on viusasa not unless you were cautious as you should have been.

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It was my birthday week,on that WRC gig and it’s been a month since then, don’t roll your eyes as far as know it’s still cancer season. I have to say I had high expectations of my new age, I went ahead and did these two very intimate blogs on Things I know to be true… and also a note To my younger self… Being honest I have had to go through them again and again for some motivation just click and go through them as well. I thought I would be making very grown up decisions of which I have ,but then again, I have also made some reckless decisions like a high teen which have made me go back to square one on figuring out this life. Picking up myself again is my job and it’s not easy at all.

I’m very sure am not the only one who gets into a new age with so much expectations then find yourself drifting downwards. The thing is,i am wiser and more self aware now and have learnt to pick myself up before it’s too late. If you’re going through the same, you shall be okay. Or am I on my own? Problems are personal anyway.

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Self love,is my main point here. It’s not a one time job it’s an everyday job even when times are hard.learning to love yourself has to be the best thing one could ever do. The way you would treat someone you love dearly ,the way you would forgive and move on , touching tenderly and hugging them tightly,listening and comforting,pampering and gifting just to mention a few ways.That is exactly how you should love yourself everyday with much Self care .I am trying so should you young missy and the gents too.

That aside,I really envy seeing kids play especially kati, I miss those days. Now as a grown up if you want to play games you pay, there is not even the time you have to create. Adulting. I love it though, getting to make my own decisions, cook what I want, being more self conscious,and oh getting to choose what I wear,I really love to dress up I must say. I want to also get to dress my man at some point in life, hopeless romantic that’s me.

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Romance,for me,is something I long to experience. I have come to understand that I am those that wish to get married have kids and live on a front beach villa and host family parties showcasing my best plates and oh,being the best auntie too. Well, I am scared, I fear if I will actually get to be the best wife, mom or even if I will get that dreamy hubby, and the harsh reality lately is that everyone is all about casual sex with no attachment,shallow communications and never commiting not planning to ever commit kind of people. But as it is said, in life you have to risk, and that’s a risk I am willing to take .Are you?

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I will see you soon, this time with raw and deep conversations. This is my 10th blog, you’re missing out if you haven’t read through them. Before I start on the next 10 Here are my blogs dear.