The question” tell me what kind of guy or lady you like”should be banned,if that’s possible, of course not and you will still continue to ask.Just stop!You certainly ask so that you can pretend to be him or her for a while then your true self comes out and one is left shocked beyond.

I know we all have a type we envision in our minds,but on the ground it’s different ,right? You find yourself with someone not even a tiny bit your type, but how they make you feel is nothing short of magical and they treat you just right. I’m of the opinion, you should choose who you want and this should be on the dating stage. Date till you find the one for you.

Has someone ever told you ,you are not my type?not me..but I know it hurts on another level ,don’t ask how I know either .You have to learn that you are not everyone’s cup of tea but probably someone’s double shot of whisky. On to the next candidate.

Il tell you my type either way, You have to be yourself. Authentic self. Show me who you really are and be open and willing to learn about me too, respecting our differences and appreciating our similarities.Simply a Mature bestfriend.

Attraction is also necessary, ask Benjamin zulu.

And he wears boots ,smells nice and decently dressed. Just some additional Essential points.

That’s it ! that’s my type and should be your type too,this tall dark and handsome doesn’t cut it,but if that’s how you are built who am I to say no to that?come here you perfectly built man…. added advantages like beards,hey there beard gang,we love to like you but what else have you got?

Same goes to the ladies,pretty face and that fire irresistible body okay,what else have you? Can you converse? Let’s talk your goals and ambition,what do you like to do?

Am ready to go for a date now,anyone? Let’s normalize breakfast dates also.